Chrissy's journey
started on this earth in Portsmouth England. 56yrs ago
As a small girl she travelled
around the world with her parents, as her Dad was a British Navel
officer.
She was schooled in Malta aged 4-6yrs. and also some of her high school
in Canada, the rest in England.
Married to Mark, her first husband, then travelling to Australia in
1980.
Divorced after 16yrs and then meeting and falling in love with Jeff
Newman. Who some of you know as a stage 4 Kidney cancer survivor.
Chrissy got involved with research into Kidney cancer, as there was
very little material out there in 1996, when Jeff was first diagnosed.
She also set up chat groups, forums and helped out with the development
of this web page with Jeff.
Ironically Chrissy started her own journey with Cancer in
June 2008. Esophageal Cancer stage 3 with lymph node involvement
(Adenocarcinoma of the GE junction) subtype signet ring.
After
her 8 hour operation, to remove ½ of her stomach and ½
of her esophagus.
Stomach cut lengthwise to form a sausage shape, as it will be in the
chest wall cavity. (Iva-lewis operation)
Chrissy spent 2 weeks in ICU as the join developed a small leak which
could have been life threatening.
Stomach drained every 2 hours through a NG tube until the leak was
healed. She spent another 2 weeks in ACU until her discharge.
Chrissy underwent Chemo but could only manage 3 of the 6 cycles as
she was to ill to continue.
Chrissy still never faltered in her devotion and looking after Jeff
and to the rest of the online community.
Also helped out with running an animal shelter web page, for which
she and Jeff developed.
Chrissy’s cancer had a recurrence in June 2010. and was very
aggressive.
This wonderful woman was very brave and courageous right up to her
passing, on Australia’s election day 21st August 2010
Been with Jeff for 18yrs. Soul mates, fighters, will be sorely and
sadly missed by many many people around this world.
To my darling wife, goodbye my sweetheart, we will reunite again in
the heavens
Do
Not Stand At My Grave And Weep
Mary Frye (1932)
Do not stand at
my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand
winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in
the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at
my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!